Women constantly ask me how I do it. 

They want to know why I choose to hang out with my exes and their partners even when the kids aren’t around. And how I handle the complexity of different households and diverging dreams and so many cooks in the kitchen. (I live for these questions,...

My two kids have different fathers. We’re each partnered with other people giving each of my boys two parents and two bonus parents. For years we’ve been co-parenting peacefully, often happily. 

I often think of a photo of us from a trip we all took to Guatemala, where my younger...

If you had told me 6 years ago that I'd be happily co-parenting with the fathers of my children and our respective partners, I would have laughed out loud. Or cried. There was lots of crying back then. 

Now here we are, actually laughing together, at holidays and our kids’ graduations...